«She never responds to my messages, but texts me ‘u up’ at 1 a.m.? What’s the deal?» «Sounds like you’re getting firedoored, bud.»
If someone only seems interested in you during the warmer months, it might be a case of freckling. Maybe they got out of a relationship of sorts during the spring and now that its summertime, youre on their hookup roster. Unfortunately, theyre not looking for anything serious or permanent – just like freckles, theyll disappear come fall.
FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS
Friends with benefits is the relatively classy way of saying you know someone and care about them and are regularly engaging in sexual acts with them, but not within the context of a relationship. It implies a certain looseness of arrangement. You probably don’t see each other as often as a real couple; don’t tell each other all the details of your lives; don’t put each other down on emergency contact forms (or mention each other on social media profiles).